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MaryAnn Walker Coaching If you're a people pleaser, I want you to know something before we dive in: You didn't wake up one day and decide to abandon yourself. Somewhere along the way, your nervous system learned that staying connected meant staying useful. That love felt safer when you were easy to love, easy to need, and easy to rely on. Those beliefs weren't born because something is wrong with you. They were an attempt to protect you. The problem is that what once helped you feel safe may...
MaryAnn Walker Coaching Have you ever expected something to go one way… and then it unfolded completely differently?Maybe opinions clashed. Food got burned. Or the weather didn’t cooperate. Too often, we allow the things that weren’t “supposed” to happen to dictate how we feel and how we show up in the world. And when that happens, we end up feeling like a victim of our circumstances. But what if it didn’t have to be that way? This time of year has a way of waking up invisible shoulds and...
Hey friend, I’ve been thinking a lot about you lately—the version of you who feels disconnected from yourself, unsure of what you want, and exhausted from trying to keep up with everyone else’s needs.The version of you who wonders, “When did I lose myself… and how do I get back?” If that’s where you are right now, I want you to know something important: You’re not alone.And you’re not doing anything wrong. So many highly sensitive people and recovering people-pleasers reach a point where they...